How to Discover Your Community Love Language
Want to figure out how you naturally connect with others in a community setting? Here’s how you can discover your community love language — the way you give and receive support within sisterhoods like ours.
Take the Love Language Quiz
Ever wondered what makes you feel most connected? Take This quiz to discover your primary love language. While it’s typically used for relationships, it also reveals a lot about how you show up in your community.
Think Back to Your Best Connections
Reflect on the moments when you’ve felt most connected to a group. Was it when someone recognized your hard work? When you volunteered for a cause that mattered to you? Or maybe it was during a heartfelt conversation over coffee. The moments that stand out are often clues to your love language.
Notice How You Show Up for Others
How do you naturally support the women in your circle? Do you send hype texts? Offer to lend a hand when someone’s overwhelmed? Or are you always surprising people with thoughtful gifts or resources? The way you give to others is often the way you need to receive.
So, what’s your community love language? Let’s break down the five different types — and how we nurture each one here at the Chamber.
Words of Affirmation: The Hype Woman
If words are your jam, you’re the friend who leaves voice notes hyping up your girls or drops encouraging comments on their business posts.
At the Chamber, we celebrate this kind of energy. Whether it’s through networking events or social shout-outs, we’re here to affirm your brilliance and cheer you on.
Quality Time: The Deep Connector
You’re all about real conversations and meaningful moments. Small talk? Not your thing. You’d rather sit down over cafecito, or tea, and get into the nitty-gritty of what lights someone up.
Good news: we get it. That’s why our events prioritize connection over transactions. From small-group workshops to intimate meetups, we create spaces where you can have the conversations that leave you energized, inspired, and seen.
Gifts: The Thoughtful Connector
For you, love is in the little things: sharing a resource, recommending a fellow member’s business, or surprising someone with a thoughtful gesture. You understand that generosity isn’t just about giving stuff — it’s about giving opportunities.
At the Chamber, we’re big believers in paying it forward. Whether it’s by supporting women-owned brands during our events or sharing your expertise with the community, there are endless ways to practice this language of love here.
Acts of Service: The Community Builder
You’re the woman who steps up when something needs to get done. From organizing events to mentoring younger professionals, you show love through action. If someone needs help, you’re already rolling up your sleeves to make it happen.
Our community is built on women like you — the doers, the builders, the changemakers. There are always opportunities to get involved, share your expertise, and create impact. Because when we serve together, we grow together.
Physical Touch: The Warm Connector
Okay, so this one might look different in a professional setting — but trust us, it matters. You’re the woman who offers a reassuring shoulder squeeze, gives the best hugs, and knows the power of human connection.
At our events, you’ll feel that warmth the moment you walk in. There’s nothing corporate or cold about our spaces. From the friendly faces to the heartfelt conversations, you’ll know: these are my people.
Here’s the thing… Community love doesn’t fit into one box. It’s words and time, generosity and action, warmth and support. It’s knowing that you don’t have to navigate your goals alone — because your girl’s girl is just a conversation away.
This month, lean into your community love language. Show up, reach out, and remember: when women support women, we all rise.
We invite you to join us this February and find your girl’s girl.
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